PAY ATTENTION TO THESE SCAMS! |
In the world of the internet, and especially in certain websites that promise to find you a soul mate, the scam is always lurking!
We have collected in this section the most common scams, and we also give you some advice, dictated by our personal experience and by that of many men who unfortunately have been deceived and have written to us, telling us about their negative experiences. This is the page that we consider most important, it is the page that gave "origin" to our whole site. Read it carefully, because in this way you will be able to avoid bad choices (and above all, to avoid "bad surprises", in the future, with your Thai partner). In particular, we will talk about these scams: 1) RISKS RELATED TO THE KNOWLEDGE OF WOMEN DIRECTLY IN THAILAND;
No one speaks clearly about these topics, but we do it in the most transparent way possible. Therefore, we recommend that you read this page. Let's start with the first one: | |
Because of our cultural heritage, of the education received, an honest Thai woman has no inclination, no interest in establishing friendly relations with a farang; on the contrary, towards him he feels a sense of fear, of total closure. On the contrary, the foreigner who goes to Thailand, will receive all possible attention, declarations of love (and even marriage proposals), from an infinity of women working in sex business (like the go-go's that work in bars, in the massage parlors, but also by comely girls who attend the discos, female students who prostitute themselves, etc.). All these girls that, unlike honest Thai women, they have great confidence with foreign men (since they are their "work"), they are constantly looking for the rich foreigner to marry, and then use it as an "ATM" for themselves and their large family to maintain in Thailand... These are the only women who will try to make you "turn your head" with incredible demonstrations of affection (fake), true love (always fake), they will take care of you, they will make you promises of eternal loyalty and love... If after all these attentions you end up believing their words, if these women can make you fall in love with them, and they are incredibly good at this art of deception (in fact, many foreigners unfortunately fall into their trap), for you the risk is big: first of all, you will have to pay the dowry to her family, then you will need to pass a particularly high monthly maintenance, both to satisfy her needs, both to meet the needs of her family in Thailand (usually, from 500 euros upwards per month just for his family, while for his personal needs the figure may be even higher, for a total that can exceed even 1000 euros per month) ... But the problem with these women it is not only the greatest economic outlay to bear, but above all the fact that for them, the economic aspect of their relationship with a farang is the most important aspect of everything, it is the fundamental aspect, so much so that, if the partner is no longer able to maintain it at those levels, the woman immediately breaks the marriage; Moreover, it can also happens that the woman, when she feel she has received it enough money from her husband, she breaks the marriage anyway and returns alone to her family, in Thailand. For example, we know of some foreign husbands who have known their future wives, who worked in bars and massage parlors (in Pattaya and Bangkok), which after having maintained economically for years both them and their respective Thai families, after having bought land and houses for them in their village, suddenly their wives broke the marriage and have returned, on their own, to live together with their respective Thai families, in their new and big houses... And even if the end of the marriage is attributable to the wife, unfortunately these husbands have not even had the chance to get back what they spent (especially with regard to the house and the land that, for our legislature in Thailand, are attributable only to us Thais ..). And the "absurd" (and sad) thing is that most of these men still haven't figured out what happened and they're still wondering why their love story is over! In the event that your woman remain in Thailand, and you are the one who needs to go to her periodically, very often it happens that these women, who swear to love you, swear total loyalty to you because you are the only man in their life, in reality they also have others companions, to whom they say the same things, companions who alternate, so as to never meet ... Obviously, from each of these companions the woman receives the corresponding economic maintenance. This is what normally happens with these women, but it can happen even worse: unfortunately, many foreigners who have married a woman known in this way, they lost all their money. Even, some of them, who have chosen to live in Thailand together with their wives, they have also lost their lives. Our crime news often reports such cases. And the motive is always the same: the economic interest, the money (and the goods) of the foreigner husband. For these women, getting married with a foreigner is just a job. There is never true love, there is no esteem,there is no respect, there is no understanding towards their foreign husband, which instead these women consider a stupid. It's just a job, and only they decide when to interrupt it! So, attention: better to avoid these women, they are the least suitable to make a serious, honest and lasting family. With these women, not only is the scam secured, but to you could cost much more than just an economic loss! |
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